I was born and raised in a close-knit farm community town surrounded by nature's embrace, my early years were marked by the simplicity and tranquillity of life. However, my idyllic world was about to be challenged
As I stepped into the schoolyard, I encountered the harsh reality of bullying. My love for nature, imaginative mind, and dreams made me an easy target for the insecurities of others. Day after day, I endured their cruelty, feeling the weight of their words and actions. Yet, I refused to let their darkness consume me.
As I grew older, I sought refuge in the world of finance. Joining a prominent financial institution, I found stability and purpose within its structured environment. Although it provided a sense of security, I couldn't shake the feeling of being confined by society's expectations.
Determined to break free from the chains of conformity, I made a life-altering decision. Leaving behind everything familiar, I set my sights on America, a land of boundless possibilities. With a heart filled with hope and dreams, I embarked on a journey to redefine my life on foreign soil.
But freedom came at a cost. In my pursuit of liberation, I fell into the clutches of addiction. The once-vibrant spirit was now trapped in the vicious cycle of drugs and alcohol and I felt lost.
As I struggled to recognize the person I had become, addiction still held me tightly in its grasp. After four tumultuous years in America, I made the difficult decision to return to Brazil, carrying the weight of my addiction with me. It was during this time that my father lay on his deathbed, adding to the overwhelming turmoil in my life. His passing served as a poignant reminder of the fragility of life and the urgent need for me to reclaim my own.
Following my father's death, I recommitted myself to my quest for liberation. Determined to find my true self, I embarked on a journey that eventually led me to the United Kingdom. It was there that I began to piece together the puzzle of my identity, realizing that the struggle I had grappled with for so long was rooted in the realization that I was gay. The weight of this truth compounded the challenges I faced, but I knew that I could no longer deny who I truly was.
In the depths of my addiction, now taking a toll on my well-being, I found myself in a marriage and with a daughter to care for. Trapped in a web of despair, I saw no way out. Suicide thoughts became a haunting presence, and I frequently found myself in hospital visits, battling the effects of depression, undergoing intense alcohol withdrawal, and clinging to sanity. My life had spiralled into a serious problem that demanded immediate confrontation, and a question that needed answer – Do I want to live or die!?
In a moment of sheer desperation, I made the courageous decision to confront my most inner conflict head-on. I gathered the strength to share my truth with my then-wife, revealing my identity as a gay person and the undeniable need for us to part ways. It was an immensely difficult conversation, but it was a crucial step towards reclaiming my authenticity and finding a path to healing.
As I confronted the depths of my addiction, I faced the reality that my life had reached a breaking point. After many years of struggle, I resolved to embark on a journey towards sobriety. It was a challenging road, but with determination, support, and a newfound sense of purpose, I broke free from the clutches of drugs and alcohol. Sobriety became my anchor, guiding me towards a healthier, more fulfilling life.
With my sobriety as a solid foundation, as I began to rebuild my life embracing my true identity and learned to love and accept myself fully, a whole new world of possibilities opened up before me. In my quest for personal growth, I discovered the realm of self-development. It began with delving into self-help books, immersing myself in the wisdom and insights they offered.
Armed with newfound knowledge and a burning desire to make a positive impact by drawing from my own experiences, I embarked on a journey as a coach and NLP practitioner training with the best professionals in the field of personal development.
Through my work as a coach and NLP practitioner, I discovered a profound sense of purpose, and I knew I had found my true calling. Through Helping others navigate their own journeys of self-discovery and transformation, I witnessed the transformative power of vulnerability and authenticity as individuals found the strength to face their own challenging issues, rewrite their narratives, and step into their true potential.
Along this path of guiding others, I encountered my own share of challenges. The road was not always smooth, and there were moments of doubt and setbacks. Yet, every obstacle became an opportunity for further growth and learning. I continued to refine my skills, expand my knowledge, and deepen my understanding of the human experience.
My story is one of resilience and transformation. Today, I stand as a testament to the power of self-development and the human capacity for growth and change. From the depths of addiction and despair, through my own journey of overcoming adversity and embracing my true self, I found my passion in guiding others towards their own empowerment. I emerged with a renewed sense of purpose and an unwavering determination to live an authentic life. I have renewed my lost relationship with my family, friends and my ex-wife. I stand as a testament to the power of confronting our most inner conflict and the ability to overcome the darkest moments.
As I continue my journey, I am committed to sharing my experiences and supporting others who face similar challenges. I believe in the limitless capacity for growth, healing, and self-discovery, reminding us all that even in our most trying times, there is always hope for a brighter tomorrow.
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